There are many men looking for women and I bet you are looking for a man, yet you still haven’t met each other…
Most of the single women I know don’t have trouble meeting men, but rather meeting the right type of men. Either he doesn’t fit the profile or it’s not a good match. In reverse, most of the single men I know looking for women have a similar issue, no mutual attraction or connection. This is an extremely frustrating situation for both sexes, and very common.
The reality is that dating is a numbers game, and you actually have to accept that a few frogs will need to be kissed before you find your prince (or princess). Too many single people won’t accept this, and sadly see themselves as failures. This is a dangerous place to be, when all hope is lost.
I believe that too many women give up too early when it comes to finding love! These women pretend to be looking, going online, attending singles groups and social events, yet don’t believe it will happen – love that is. The problem is (on the inside) they have given up hope, they are going through the motions, but with very little faith. When you don’t believe in something, not much can occur. Think about this question carefully, do you still believe you can find love?
Hope is what drives us, hope is what keeps us going through the rough patches, and forces us to conquer failure. Circumstances are dim with very little progress being made, yet hope is what enables us to continue. Many women have given up the hope of finding Mr Right and resign themselves to failure. Sure they will go through the motions, talking to men, putting on a smile and even going on dates, but deep down inside, they believe they have already lost. No hope, no faith, no luck!
As mentioned at the top of this article, there are many men looking for women, tons of men, and furthermore, these are good guys that many women would like. The problem is, that with a lack of hope in being able to move forward, when you do eventually come across a good man, you won’t see his value. Hope is important in finding love and without it (man or woman) you are doomed to fail.